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Best Educational TV Shows for Toddlers & Preschoolers

By Katy Huie Harrison, PhD | May 4, 2020 | 0 Comments
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Raise your hand if your kids are getting more screen time than they were in the past! Everyone? Probably. I know mine sure is.  When we’re busy trying to keep kids happy during quarantine, crisis schooling, or working from home with littles, TV becomes more of a necessity than many of us might like. Let’s…

Miscarriage Support Groups Got me Through Recurrent Pregnancy Loss

By Katy Huie Harrison, PhD | April 30, 2020 | 0 Comments

When I had my first miscarriage, I learned at 8 ½ weeks that the pregnancy had ended before I even knew it’d begun. That is, I’d been carrying a nonviable pregnancy for over a month, and I had no idea. I wondered: How was this possible?  Why did I still have morning sickness all day?  Why…

Katy’s Blighted Ovum Story: What I Wish I’d Known

By Katy Huie Harrison, PhD | April 27, 2020 | 0 Comments

“At least there wasn’t really a baby.” I heard this phrase so often after my blighted ovum miscarriage (BO) that I actually stopped telling people what type of loss it was. I just couldn’t take it anymore. For years, I’d tried to have a baby. For more than a month, I’d dreamed of my child’s…

Are Infertility Support Groups Right for You?

By Kristen Bergeron | April 24, 2020 | 0 Comments

Managing infertility can be a really hard when you feel like you’re all alone in the process. Even though 1 in 8 couples experiences infertility, many don’t talk about it, so fertility issues can feel very isolating. Thankfully, there are several face-to-face and online infertility support groups available that can make a difficult fertility journey…

What (Not) to Say To Someone Who Had a Miscarriage

By Katy Huie Harrison, PhD | April 20, 2020 | 19 Comments
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It’s a question I’m asked regularly: “What do I say to someone who had a miscarriage?” Here’s a helpful list of what to say, and what NOT to say.

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