Hey, friends! In this heartfelt episode, we’re tackling the well-intentioned yet often harmful advice that people give to those experiencing infertility and pregnancy loss, particularly the phrase “just relax.” This phrase, though meant to comfort, can leave women feeling misunderstood, blamed, and isolated.
Katy begins by sharing her personal journey through recurrent miscarriage and infertility. She recounts the numerous times she was told to “just relax” and how each instance made her feel more responsible for her losses. This kind of advice suggests that stress is the cause of infertility or miscarriage, which is simply not true and can deeply hurt those already struggling.

We dive into the history of how reproductive struggles have been misunderstood and mishandled, shedding light on how past medical practices often blamed women for their losses. From the Victorian era’s misguided notions of hysteria to the present day, the narrative hasn’t changed as much as we’d like to believe. Despite advances in medical knowledge, many still erroneously believe that stress or minor physical activities can cause pregnancy loss.
Listen in to learn:
- How saying “just relax” can actually backfire
- Practical tips for offering real support
- How to foster a community where women feel seen, heard, and supported in their reproductive journeys
By changing the way we talk about and handle these sensitive issues, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world for all mothers.
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