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An Conversation with a Transgender Bonus Mom & Child Educator
I met Thea on a sunny day in early autumn. She and her friend Nicole run a small, independent school, and they gave me a private tour of their classrooms. Before I knew her as a bonus mom, Thea was my son’s teacher. With bright eyes and a mischievous smile, I quickly fell in love […]
New Baby Checklist: 20 Things To Do When Getting Ready for Baby
Preparing for a baby is amazing, exciting, and frankly, pretty overwhelming. Why doesn’t that positive pregnancy test come with a checklist to help you prepare for baby? The good news is, you can get all the information you need from mamas who’ve been there before you. And yes, we’re providing an actual, downloadable preparing for […]
Natural Ways to Reduce Bloat During Pregnancy
The past few months you’ve been eating for two (we’ve been there, mama!) and lately you’ve felt unpleasant stomach cramping. The guilty culprit could be bloating. Bloating during pregnancy is completely normal. It’s one of those “charming” weird pregnancy symptoms, including belching and passing gas, that will likely last throughout your pregnancy. Why? Turns out, […]
10 Sweet Rainbow Baby Announcement Ideas
Announcing a rainbow baby can be a giant bag of emotions. You’re excited and scared. You know people will celebrate, and you want to celebrate, but you may also have some lingering desire to temper your feelings. Many people worry about how their rainbow baby announcements may potentially trigger other moms dealing with infertility or […]
13 Unique Rainbow Baby Gifts for Mom and Baby
Learn how to give rainbow baby gifts for mom and baby that both honor the loss of infant angels and celebrate the hope that rainbow babies bring.
18 Must-Read Books About Winter for Kids
Winter is here, and as you cozy up by the fire, it’s time for some great winter reads with your kiddos. There are so many amazing winter books for kids that show the magic of this season! Here are our 18 favorite books about winter for kids, from our resident mom and children’s literature expert, […]
20 Miscarriage Quotes that Brought Me Comfort
The experience of pregnancy loss can be so heartbreaking, and the grief is hard to navigate because it’s so intangible. You may have a positive pregnancy test or ultrasound photos to remind you of the life that lived inside you. But there are no tangible objects–usually no gravesite to visit, no clothes that smell like […]
5 Tips for Coping with Having Two Under Two
Two under two can seem like a daunting task to take on. If you’re expecting a baby with a toddler, trust us, you’re going to need this guide on how to survive two under two. I was super nervous to bring home another baby since my son Ryan was still so young. Once I realized […]
34 Best Books for Babies
Reading to little ones has so many benefits, even when we feel like they’re too young to notice or pay any attention. That’s why classic baby books remain classics, and why people are always scrambling to get their hands on the best books for babies. I loved reading to my son when he was a […]