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With the popularity of “push presents,” many people struggle to choose a gift for their wife after giving birth. In this article, we’ll outline simple and easy gifts for a new mom from husband, partner, or significant other that are sure to make her feel special.

Looking for other gift ideas for a new mom? Find out what to buy a new mom for herself (not the baby) and how to create a new mom care package. And of course, you can’t go wrong gifting the BEST postpartum pajamas!

What is a Push Present?

A push present is a gift for a new mom from husband or partner that she receives after giving birth. It literally refers to the fact that she pushed a human out of her body, and dammit, she deserves some respect–and apparently a gift–for that. 

A push present recognizes childbirth as a special occasion, which it is. And we regularly celebrate such occasions with gifts.

Push presents are nice, but personally, I don’t think they’re totally necessary. 

Here’s my thing with “push presents.” Having a new baby is such an intense time that I, personally, was most concerned with whether Husband is physically and emotionally present, helping with the baby and helping me recover. 

Because let me tell you something partners–postpartum recovery is no joke! Your partner freakin’ gave birth to a human being. More than anything, what she needs is your physical and emotional support!

That said, when considering whether to get a gift for your wife or partner after giving birth, check with her. She may want or expect a push present.

If she does, this list is full of push present ideas.  

Or, if there’s a holiday coming up–maybe you’re buying Christmas gifts, Hanukkah presents, a birthday gift, etc.–you definitely want to be prepared with a thoughtful gift, even if it’s not a “push present.”

Whether you decide to be on trend and buy a push present is your choice, but let’s be real: there’s likely a holiday around your child’s birth you’ll need to celebrate. OR maybe you leave off the label of “push present” and just celebrate that your partner is a badass.

Either way, don’t worry about figuring out what to get. The best ideas are all right here!

Who Do I Buy a Push Present For?

Push presents are romantic gifts from a partner to the person who has birthed (pushed out) a baby. But here’s why I struggle with that. Not all women are able, or choose to, have babies naturally, or even on their own. 

So, if you’re a partner or husband considering gifts for a new mom, remember that the gifts are important for all new moms.

If your partner is one who would really appreciate a gift, then she should get one no matter the circumstances. 

If you’re going to give a gift, C-section mamas deserve gifts. Adoptive mamas deserve gifts. Mamas whose babies were born via surrogate deserve gifts. 

This is my other issue with the phrase “push present.” You don’t have to push to be equally as deserving. 

How Much Do You Spend on a Push Present?

First, you have to decide if a push present is even right for your family. Then, you have to decide what to spend. 

I’ve seen push presents of all sizes, from new cars, to a song a husband wrote for his wife and new baby. And honestly, since a push present is meant to be a romantic gift, I know many women who’d prefer the song. 

But only you know your partner and what she expects. Judge accordingly. 

When Should You Buy a Gift for a New Mom?

Gifts for a new mom shortly after she has given birth (or you have adopted or had a child by whatever means worked best for your family) are never a bad idea, as long as you’re working reasonably within your budget. 

I don’t recommend giving your partner a gift at the baby shower–wait and see what you get. Plus, showers are more about gifts for the baby. You want something for the new mom! (The one exception here is if you’re gifting her a fancy diaper bag, like this one. I only recommend that if you KNOW she wants a really nice diaper bag, though.)

She’s going through a really hard time, and she deserves to feel loved and appreciated.  

Of course, remember all the major gift-giving holidays, too!

  • Mother’s Day
  • Birthdays
  • Anniversaries
  • Valentine’s Day
  • Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa
  • Any other gift-giving holidays you celebrate

What is the Best Gift for a New Mom?

There are so many gifts that new moms will love. People constantly ask me, “What do you bring to a new mom?” I’m here to tell you!

I’m breaking the recommendations into 2 different sections. 

  1. Meaningful Gifts for a New Mom 
  2. Practical Gifts for a New Mom

When planning a gift for your wife after giving birth, choose which type of gift she’ll appreciate the most. 

For some women, practical gifts are the best because money is tight, and there are a lot of things you need when you have a new baby. 

Other women, though, would much rather have something meaningful, heartfelt, thoughtful.

They’ve just gone through a huge ordeal, and what they really want to know is that you recognize how badass they are, and that you care.

Meaningful Gifts for a New Mom

(1) Jewelry

This is one of the most common gifts for new moms, and for good reason. Most women love jewelry, and it’s easy to make jewelry sentimental. 

You can buy a gift for your wife after giving birth that has your baby’s birth stone, which has inherent symbolism.

Other options include necklaces, bracelets, or rings with your child(ren)’s name(s), and you can add to them if you have more children. In other words, you aren’t buying expensive birthstone jewelry for every child! Win-win.

We love this necklace from Sarah Cornwell Jewelry as a gift for a new mom from husband or partner. Plus her other styles are great for gifts and personal use.

If your wife wants fancier jewelry, look for something in sterling silver. This is an especially good idea because it will last much longer than less expensive jewelry you can buy.

If you want something trendier, gold (go with gold-plated for less money) and rose gold are very in right now.

A great, budget-friendly option is this beautiful new mom necklace from Dear Ava.

A gold necklace with a leaf pendant that says motherhood on the card from dear ava

(2) Family photo session

Find a local photographer in your area who specializes in newborn family photos and surprise your wife. If you’re an Atlanta local, I recommend Brooke Whitney Photography

(3) Postpartum doula or night nurse

This, like the photographer, takes a little more work on your end because you have to find one in your area. But I promise this is one of the absolute best gifts for a new mom from husband!

(4) Day You Were Born Box

Have this stunning box from MadTree Woodcrafts customized with your child’s name and birth date. Fill it with newspaper clippings from the day of your baby’s birth, plus other sentimental items like baby’s footprints, your family’s hospital bracelets, first hospital hat or blanket, or the robe mom wore in the hospital. You’ll instantly have any new mom in tears. 

I have a few items handmade by MadTree Woodcrafts, and they’re top tier quality. This stunning keepsake box, filled with baby’s footprints, newspaper clippings from the day of birth, etc. is guaranteed to melt any new mom’s heart. Have it customized with the baby’s name and birthdate!

(5) Photo Box for baby’s foot and hand print

This photo, hand, and footprint frame is the perfect gift for your wife after giving birth. It’s certain to fill her with joy for years to come. Kit by Main Event USA.

(6) Pampering

A massage, facial, manicure, pedicure–whatever works! Just keep in mind her specific needs.

For instance, nursing moms who are wearing nursing pads just to keep their boobs from leaking breast milk probably aren’t able to leave baby long enough for a full spa day.

But she may be able to pop out for a pedicure while you, partner, stay with your baby. Or maybe you could order a massage therapist to your house.

Practical Gifts for a New Mom

Remember that new moms are going through a lot. If they birthed naturally, they’re recovering from a major physical trauma. Their hormones are shifting, their bodies are not the bodies they know.

Evecn moms who didn’t give birth to their new children are adjusting to a VERY new normal. A lack of sleep, being busy moms even when they’re stuck at home and lonely. They’re likely living on dry shampoo because they haven’t had time to shower.

Practical gifts let them experience a bit of comfort or help without breaking the budget while making their lives easier!

(1) Comfy slippers: She’s going to spend a lot of time at home, and it’s nice to be able to walk around comfortably. If they’re fuzzy with memory foam, even better!

(2) Super soft pajamas: I rarely got dressed during the early postpartum days, so comfy pajamas were HUGE! Talk about a great gift when you’re trying to figure out what to buy a new mom for herself, not for baby! I had 3 favorite brands:

Leena & Lu are definitely the BEST. Made from organic Peruvian cotton and so comfy that I liken them to sleeping on a cloud, these PJs are a win for all. My favorite is the Talara dress nightgown. 

I LOVE the talara dress from Leena & Lu. It’s like sleeping on a cloud.

Kindred Bravely is postpartum specific, and many of the clothes are made for nursing. But they’re equally as comfortable and amazing for formula-feeding mamas! Kindred Bravely are absolutely  my favorite brand of sleeping bras AND postpartum pajamas. They also have pumping bras for pumping moms. 

Barefoot Dreams are truly the SOFTEST, most AMAZING pajamas I’ve ever worn. But they’re also PRICEY! So I include them, but know it’s a splurge gift that mama will LOVE you for! I wore the robe, nightgowns, and other pajamas I was gifted until they had too many holes to even justify using them around the house. 

(3) Amazon Prime Membership: (Check to see if they already have one first!) This membership will get free 2-day shipping (or less) from Amazon, which makes it much easier to keep up with supplies they need around the house!

(4) Audible Membership: New moms spend lots of time watching TV and listening to podcasts or audiobooks while their little ones sleep in their arms. Books are hard to read with a babe in arms, but easy to listen to!

(5) Prime Pantry Membership: Free grocery delivery? Yes, please! Infant seats and grocery carts are no one’s friend!

(6) Instacart Gift Card: Or gift an Express Membership to offer free delivery. See which is better for grocery delivery in the new mom’s area. Sometimes it’s Amazon Fresh; other times it’s Instacart. I’m actually a huge Instacart fan!

(7) Wireless headphones (to listen to the audiobooks while baby sleeps)

(8) Amazon Home Services provides handyman services, housecleaning, and so much more that a new mom might need!)

Let me tell you something, partners, in case you haven’t already noticed. With a new baby, keeping the house clean feels impossible! Because it is.

Hiring someone to come in can be SUCH a help. If it’s not in budget, then clean the house yourself, or ask a friend or family member to gift a day of cleaning. Trust me, your partner doesn’t want to have to ask you to clean, and she likely won’t. But she’s desperate for it!

(9) Homedics Ellia Ultrasonic Oil Diffuser to keep soothing, relaxing scents running through the house at all times. 

(10) Weighted & Scented Sleeping Mask to help her relax while baby is sleeping. Because relaxing, if we’re being honest, is HARD. 

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