Katy Huie Harrison, PhD

Katy Huie Harrison, PhD, is an author, mom, recurrent miscarriage survivor, & owner of Undefining Motherhood. She lives in Atlanta with her husband (affectionately known on the internet as "Husband,") son (Jack), and daughter (Branham). She believes our society puts too many expectations on women that make womanhood and motherhood restrictive. Her goal is to shift the paradigm about what it means to be a woman and mother, giving all women a greater sense of agency over their own lives. You can find Katy and her work featured in places like CNN's Headline News, Romper, Scary Mommy, Love What Matters, & more.

“Just Relax” and Other Words of Comfort That Hurt More Than They Help

Hey, friends! In this heartfelt episode, we’re tackling the well-intentioned yet often harmful advice that people give to those experiencing infertility and pregnancy loss, particularly the phrase “just relax.” This phrase, though meant to comfort, can leave women feeling misunderstood, blamed, and isolated. Katy begins by sharing her personal journey through recurrent miscarriage and infertility. […]

14 Ideas for Rainbow Baby Clothes for Your Miracle Baby

When you experience pregnancy after loss, it may feel overwhelming and terrifying, or it may seem nothing short of miraculous. Many people feel both! One thing that helps some mamas is leaning into the idea of having a rainbow baby–or a baby that arrives after loss. If that’s you (and it’s completely okay if you […]

Top Push Gift Ideas for a New Mom from Husband

Gifting a push present that has meaning and purpose adds an extra layer of joy to an exciting (and a little bit scary if we’re being honest!) transition. We’ve scoured the internet; surveyed the moms in our community; and tested products to find the best, highest quality options to give the new mama in your […]

The Most Popular (and Trusted!) Sleep Sacks for Toddlers

Swaddles and sleep bags might seem like more of an “infant must-have.” But you might be surprised to learn that sleep sacks for toddlers are a popular product among many parents! While many types of wearable blankets are geared toward newborns and young infants, some of the best sleep sacks on the market are still […]

Avoid Mom Burnout w/ NYT Bestselling Author Eve Rodsky

Feeling the weight of the mental load and struggling with mom burnout? You’re not alone. In a world where gender roles are shifting, yet the bulk of domestic responsibilities still fall on women, it’s time to find a sustainable balance. This week on Undefining Motherhood, we delve into a transformative conversation with New York Times […]

Blighted Ovum Symptoms and Miscarriage Treatment Options

Your feelings related to your blighted ovum miscarriage are valid, mama. If you’ve experienced this kind of miscarriage, you likely had all the symptoms of pregnancy and then suffered a shocking loss.  It’s okay to feel lost and alone, but please know that we are here to support you through your miscarriage journey. The following […]

S1 EP3: “When Are You Going to Have a Baby?” & Other Questions We Don’t Ask Men

For centuries, women have felt pressure to have a baby. Most adult women who don’t have children by their mid-late twenties have found themselves at parties, holidays, or family dinners where someone comments on their “biological clock” or asks that inevitable question–”When are you going to have a baby?” In this episode, we dive deep […]