The Source of Our Helplessness: A Father’s Perspective on Miscarriage

“If we are to turn the corner and cope with uncertain losses, we must first temper our hunger for mastery. This is the paradox. To regain a sense of mastery when there is ambiguity about a loved one’s absence or presence, we must give up trying to find the perfect solution. We must redefine our […]

What is a Double Rainbow Baby and How Can You Prepare for One?

As if one pregnancy or infant loss wasn’t hard enough, dealing with TWO losses can feel catastrophic. However, if the moment arises when you can finally bring a baby into the world safely, this baby is often referred to as a double rainbow baby.  The relationship between the phrase “rainbow baby” and miscarriage is more […]

Which Rainbow Baby Onesies are Right for Your Baby?

When loss parents experience a pregnancy after miscarriage, the journey can leave them worried and anxious. At the same time, though, the thought of bringing a new life into the world deserves celebration, which is where rainbow baby onesies come in! If you’re trying to find the perfect rainbow baby outfit for a long-awaited new […]

Coming to Terms with the Highs and Lows of a Rainbow Baby Pregnancy

The effervescent Dolly Parton once said, “If you want the rainbow, you have to put up with the rain.” While she probably wasn’t thinking about having a baby after a miscarriage or loss when she said this, it’s incredible how much the quote applies to a rainbow baby pregnancy. Becoming pregnant with a rainbow baby […]

14 Baby Loss Gifts to Support Grieving Parents

I remember sitting in a dark Broadway theatre, excited to see Hamilton for the first time. The music was upbeat, the actors were phenomenal, and I was enthralled. And then it happened. The words started pouring out much like the tears streaming down my cheeks, and I found myself unable to breathe, heaving sobs, fully […]

22 Ideas to Gift for Someone Who Miscarried

Miscarriage gifts don’t take away the pain of pregnancy loss. But having been through 4 losses myself and worked with thousands of women experiencing loss, I can confidently say that there’s something especially helpful about having loved ones take the time to create a care package or send gifts for miscarriage. What most people don’t […]

Best Miscarriage Christmas Ornaments for Holiday Comfort

Most of us underestimate what it will be like grieving during the holidays. “The most wonderful time of the year” isn’t so great for people experiencing grief. A miscarriage Christmas ornament can be so supportive to loss families, as it’s a symbol of the child they dreamed of becoming a part of their holiday traditions. […]

International Wave of Light 2023: A Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Event

As the seasons shift and a chill graces the air, October brings me back to one of the most bittersweet moments of the year: the International Wave of Light. This ceremony is an integral part of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, and it holds a sacred space in my heart and in our community. […]

Support After Stillbirth: What Not to Say & What TO Say

There are a lot of things I want to say in regards to how to give support after a stillbirth. Let’s say you heard the tragic news that someone you care for is going through an unimaginable loss and you want to do something for them; you want to support them.  But you want to […]